"Who will Cry when you Die" The bigger Question in Life…

I was going through a dead man’s profile on Facebook.. it left me with tremors down my nerves.. what kind of posts will people write down my wall when I’m dead? Are they gonna miss me? Or say anything nice about me? Are they going to tell me what beautiful life I had lived? Or will they tell me I brought a smile on their faces? Will there be posts that tell the world that I was a worthy human being?

Will there be hate posts? That I made someone feel miserable? Will there be posts saying that they’re glad that I’m gone..?

These thoughts torment me so much inside.. I begin to worry about the way I have lived my life.. have I done enough to those who deserved? Have I not offended those I didn't accept…?

If I begin to worry so much about the way I have lived in then world and how well I have managed the worldly beings.. a greater question comes into my mind..

Have I done enough to deserve the goodness that my Lord Almighty has for me in the hereafter..? Have I fulfilled my duties as a servant to God..? Are my sufferings well treated? Are my achievements well thanked for? The bigger question in life arises when life itself seems smaller… I hope and pray that, I and You, can fix it before it’s too late..Amen  :-)

Prefect: A Balanced Character

Being  a prefect is a mammoth task. To put it simply, each new day that any prefect steps into school they are met with a dozen more task to add into the "To Do List" so that later teachers, other students etc. don't have a "Why didn't you do that list?"

It is without a doubt a challenging task being an A/L student while having the many responsibilities as a prefect. It's not how capable you are in judging the two but how well you can make them balance. In my perspective, there is nothing more important than studies but with the grate honor of being named as a prefect in our respective schools, I find that there is no greater joy than representing our alma mater and bearing the many duties entrusted onto us.

Thereby by having this post, we are compelled to work as twice as hard as anyone. Whatever shortcomings we might have, using Prefectship as the reason to failure is not a commendable thing. this is where good leadership skills come in a highly respected one, Especially as a student leader it is important to be an example to our peers

The support rendered by our principle and teachers in school are very much appreciated when it come to maintaining studies and our various duties. Also a loving reminder to all prefect is that our parents always have our back. No matter how much they might scream at us it is because of their consent and guidance that we are prefect!

At the end of the day though, the only person who is going to help you, is you yourself. Therefore ambition and determination is something everyone should have in their day to day lives regardless of whether they are a prefect or not. We all want to reach somewhere and as prefects by embracing our duties while keeping up with the daily work load we can strive to better leaders and ultimately gain life lessons that will remain with us for the many years to come.

How to Become Popular on Facebook

Lots of people want to be popular on facebook but approach it the wrong way. There is more to being popular on facebook than just being noticed. Follow the advice given and you'll be the most popular person in your network of facebook friends.

Take a picture of yourself
Choose a nice place, with good light, and use a good quality camera. . Wear nice clothes, wear make up and style your hair. Choose a cool pose. Smile or be serious. Look at the camera or somewhere else. Not very close, not far away. Take a lot of photos and choose the best. Then, use photoshop to make it more attractive. Add a photo for your cover, too. Something that expresses you.

Add Everyone.
You ARE popular so you need people to know this by becoming friends with absolutely everyone. Yes, that's right, people you have never seen before, people you see occasionally but never speak to and people you simply do not like. Just go mad and ADD, ADD, ADD! The old school caretaker who lost his job under mysterious circumstances, add him! That woman down your street who started the craze for vertical blinds, add her! The butcher's son with the prescription shoe and the smelly pencil behind his ear, YES! ADD HIM! Add everyone, You're THAT popular FFS!

Write very nice status.
-Not just nice. Don't copy others, write yours or write smarts and funny status. You will gain more likes.
-Comment on others walls. Write cute things like "This girl is amazing!", "Most beautiful person I know" or "love you<3". This way, they will like you.
-The most easy part: Facebook Boyfriends/ Girlfriends. If you like someone add him/her. Then, chat with him twice or more. You can ask him/her if he/she want to get married or be in relationship with you for fake. And thats it. Of, course, choose single guys/ girls.

Ask Questions That Will Make You Look Sexy and Alluring / Like a Rock Hard Casanova.
HER:
Craving candy floss right now. Anyone know where I can buy any from?

HIM:
Trippin' on fat burners. Real horny. Wot time does gym shut?
The possibilities are endless here. You can ask absolutely anything and the more stupid you appear, the bigger response you will get. It's cool to be dumb though isn't it?
Make Banal Personal Chit-Chat Public Information.
Everyone needs to see that you are living your life to the max...

HER:
Please can we have a McDonalds for tea tonight mum? with *tagged mum's name* at *a pretentious yet 'fun' sounding name for this person's house*

HIM:
Lend us a tenner mate with *tagged dad's name* at *salacious and sexist name for this person's house*

Share Every Private Conversation You Have Had in Real Life That Has Raised So Much as a Cackle.
Shehan Ragunadh: Have you seen Marian's hair?
Me: Yes, he looks like a pubic mound
Shehan Ragunadh : What's that?
Me: OMG WTF FFS PMSL LOL!

Participate in many opportunities.
Join as many interesting groups as you can. Add as many applications as are interesting and useful. Become fans as many things that you like, that is a great way to show your friends what you like. You don't want a bunch of profile junk. Take cool quizzes.

Be Different

During major events (a big news story, sporting event or the season finale of Downton Abbey, let’s say) posts tend to sound alike. Don’t be just another nattering voice on my feed. Give me a link to a cool 70s video or a link to some new app that’s truly rocking your world or maybe a photo of your cat in a tiny bunny costume. Hmm. Then again, scratch that. We don’t need more stinking

Check in Everywhere.
Wherever you are CHECK the hell IN! If you're sat in your bedroom just check in at a club and pretend you're there. If you're actually somewhere that you think is quite exciting check in and post a picture.
HER:
Check in: Harvey Nichols
Update: Just chillin' in Harvey Nic's
Photo: Er... you are clearly sat on a stool in the shoe department and you've still got your coat on. That won't do. Scrap the photo.

HIM:
Check In: Spearmint Rhino
Update: Up to my eyeballs in *derogatory term for female genitalia* #LAD
Photo: Just use that picture of you looking perplexed again or Instagram of a close up of a half full bottle of beer.
Make Up an Amusing Situation and Take a Photograph of Yourself.

HER:
Status: That awkward moment when someone fills your hairdryer with flour.
Picture: Girl pouting and covered in flour.

Make a Video.
Do something distasteful or dangerous or pretend you've lost a bet on film and give it a snazzy title that will attract attention like...

Dushantha drinking a glass of piss
Hiroshana snogging a tramp
or..
You won't believe what this girl did to herself with an oven fresh baguette in front of her whole class.

The title "I got bored" won't fool anyone, so scrap that and in no time you will be competing with the tampon girl and the countless kids who've set fire to their hair or cut through their hands playing the knife game. What's a missing finger when you have Facebook fame?

Tips

• Put 'like for a return' in your picture caption so more people will like your picture.

• Don't forget, to wish at everyone at his or her birthday!

• Join groups with your interest or with a lot of members. Make your group and invite friends, too.

• Login everyday for about 30 minutes or more if you can.

• Your profile information's must be original. Choose locations like Colombo or Mount Lavinia. Jobs like Durex" for 

• boys or "Pop Singers for girls. You can add your dream job, if you want. Also, write nice things about yourself.

• Ask questions about public ideas such as "Who will go to the Eurovision this year?"

• Play games but not a lot.

Warnings

• Don't call yourself FAMOUS. Don't be narcissistic.

• Don't write racist/politic or religion views in your status.

• Don't be mean! You have to be nice and kind with all.

• Don't write rude comments in photos or status of others and yourself.

• IF YOU WANT TO BE FAMOUS TAKE IT SERIOUSLY, but not too seriously!

What to say when a Girl asks 'Why Do You Love Me?

What truly are the reasons, if summed up, that a guy falls for a girl:
- Her face (75 %)
- Her smartness (45 %)
- Availability (50 %)
- Hotness (85 %)
- Friendship (20 %)
- Your own state (40 %)

If these reasons are taken and told, they would sound like:
- I love you because you are so beautiful.
- I love you because you are so smart.
- I love you because you were available and I was looking for a girlfriend.
- I love you because you are so hot.
- I love you because we were such good friends.
- I love you because I'd lost my entire savings in Gambling and felt broken and alone; and I needed someone, anyone in my life.

Most of the reasons sound weird, but factually, majority of guys actually say these lines.

Q. 1 - How is this different from what her ex-boyfriend might have said, and the thousand people who tell her this same thing everyday?

Q. 2- Does she really want to hear this?

The answers to both of these questions are negative and demand an improvement. So what do you say when a Girl asks you: Why do you Love me?

1) Because I have never met such an awesome person in my life.
Use lines such as:

- Very simply, you are awesome. 

- Why do we become friends with people? Because they are awesome. Why do we fall in love with a person? Because they are awesomer than awesome; and that's you.

- You're the most awesome person I have met in my life. I love you not because of anything except for this fact. If I think for days, I wouldn't be able to come up with any person that is even close to being as awesome as you are.

- You're fun; you are such a great talker; you have such a beautiful mind; you're so different from other mean, stupid people; you're the most amazing girl I have ever met in my life; and quite simply, I didn't fall for you because you are incredibly beautiful or mind-blowingly out-of-my-league, I fell for you because you have no match. And I think I am the luckiest man to have you in my life.

My girlfriend doesn't let me look at her cell-phone. What does that mean?

If your girlfriend is not letting you look at your cell-phone or:
- Sharing the password of her mail accounts.
- Sharing the password of her social networking sites.
- Sharing the password or key to anything that is a door to personal stuff.

There are following conclusions or possibility that might be in such a case:

1) Your relationship is at no stage.
If you think you are in love with this this, or this one's special, then forget it, because she is not serious for you yet. She might be waiting for some chapters to be over, which probably have a trail in those passwords. A girl lives a very complicated life. Reasons:
- Because women generally don't have the power to end things for good.
- But they like to portray like they have this habit, and thus keep many secrets.
- They are emotionally involved and entangled into many self-woven relationships at the same time.
- They have the tendency and a very good belief that things are going to end by themselves. For example:- if they have an ex-boyfriend you don't like, she won't ever tell him to completely get out of her life, but would always assure you that he is out of her life.
This generally happens with newly formed relationships, when the girl has much of baggage from the previous relationship, and issues that she hasn't solved yet.

2) You have no clue - and also she doesn't want you to know - about her secrets.
It might be messages in her Inbox that she doesn't want to delete and neither wants to share them with you. It might be pictures of some intimate kind, or of someone you wouldn't like to see, or perhaps you'd question about. There might be still mailing between them, sorting things out. And also, there might be some new extremely surprising thing that none of us can expect.
The only thing assured is that it won't be nothing - like she'd say. Because if it is nothing, why would she risk her new relationship with such a small thing? Always mind: She'd put on the suspecting sort by keeping questions such as - why can't you trust my word when I say there is nothing Or, I don't like exchanging passwords, it's as simple as that. But always remember: She has no point except for that, so she is not actually making any sense but landing to the last resort - which is targeting you.

3) Don't trust this girl, no matter what.If she denies to share her phone or passwords, which shouldn't be an issue, don't trust the girl then. I am not saying that she might by lying, but there is 95 % of chance that she is. And her secrets could be anything. You could only be her insurance, or someone she was using to make her ex-boyfriend jealous, or someone who was a time-pass - anything basically. If she cannot be honest in the beginning of the relationship then there are no chances that you are going to happy with this woman in the coming time, so it's better to be on the safe side than to realize it late.