Friday, June 21, 2013
My girlfriend doesn't let me look at her cell-phone. What does that mean?
If your girlfriend is not letting you look at your cell-phone or:
- Sharing the password of her mail accounts.
- Sharing the password of her social networking sites.
- Sharing the password or key to anything that is a door to personal stuff.
There are following conclusions or possibility that might be in such a case:
1) Your relationship is at no stage.
If you think you are in love with this this, or this one's special, then forget it, because she is not serious for you yet. She might be waiting for some chapters to be over, which probably have a trail in those passwords. A girl lives a very complicated life. Reasons:
- Because women generally don't have the power to end things for good.
- But they like to portray like they have this habit, and thus keep many secrets.
- They are emotionally involved and entangled into many self-woven relationships at the same time.
- They have the tendency and a very good belief that things are going to end by themselves. For example:- if they have an ex-boyfriend you don't like, she won't ever tell him to completely get out of her life, but would always assure you that he is out of her life.
This generally happens with newly formed relationships, when the girl has much of baggage from the previous relationship, and issues that she hasn't solved yet.
2) You have no clue - and also she doesn't want you to know - about her secrets.
It might be messages in her Inbox that she doesn't want to delete and neither wants to share them with you. It might be pictures of some intimate kind, or of someone you wouldn't like to see, or perhaps you'd question about. There might be still mailing between them, sorting things out. And also, there might be some new extremely surprising thing that none of us can expect.
The only thing assured is that it won't be nothing - like she'd say. Because if it is nothing, why would she risk her new relationship with such a small thing? Always mind: She'd put on the suspecting sort by keeping questions such as - why can't you trust my word when I say there is nothing Or, I don't like exchanging passwords, it's as simple as that. But always remember: She has no point except for that, so she is not actually making any sense but landing to the last resort - which is targeting you.
3) Don't trust this girl, no matter what.If she denies to share her phone or passwords, which shouldn't be an issue, don't trust the girl then. I am not saying that she might by lying, but there is 95 % of chance that she is. And her secrets could be anything. You could only be her insurance, or someone she was using to make her ex-boyfriend jealous, or someone who was a time-pass - anything basically. If she cannot be honest in the beginning of the relationship then there are no chances that you are going to happy with this woman in the coming time, so it's better to be on the safe side than to realize it late.
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